Pelvic Floor Exercises for Women

When most people talk about kegel exercises, you often hear something like, “You’re just supposed to squeeze!”

But what exactly are you supposed to be squeezing? It’s easy (and common) to think you’re squeezing your pelvic floor muscles when you may be squeezing other sphincter muscles that are in close proximity to your pelvic floor. Because you can’t really touch or see your pelvic floor muscles like you can see and touch your bicep or calf muscles, how do you know you’re squeezing the correct ones?

Use this guide to learn how to perform pelvic floor exercises the right way. 

How to Know If You’re Using the Right Muscles

Typically, individuals are told that if they stop their flow of urine midstream, that is how they can find and identify their pelvic floor muscles. Don’t do this! Stopping your urination mid-stream will only train your bladder to not empty completely which can lead to various urinary and bladder issues such as urinary incontinence (UI).

Although it can be difficult to find these muscles, there are ways to safely and accurately identify them. If, after trying the method explained below, you are still concerned that you’re not squeezing the correct muscles, a pelvic floor physical therapist can assist you in identifying your pelvic floor muscles, in addition to addressing any other pelvic floor concerns you may have.

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Identifying Your Pelvic Floor Muscles

Females: If you have female anatomy, you can identify your pelvic floor muscles by placing a finger into your vagina and trying to squeeze your finger with your pelvic floor muscles. It is helpful to try to squeeze and lift your finger towards your belly button. The squeezing and lifting motion can specifically target your specific pelvic floor muscles.

Males: In those with male anatomy, you can identify your pelvic floor muscles by sitting on your hand and attempting to lift your scrotum to your belly button. The muscles used to perform this motion are your pelvic floor muscles. Another way for men to identify which muscles are connected to the pelvic floor is to imagine you are holding in gas. These muscles, used to prevent passing wind, are also part of the pelvic floor.

Benefits of Pelvic Floor Muscle Training

There are various benefits to maintaining a healthy pelvic floor.

1. Improve Incontinence Symptoms

If you experience symptoms of incontinence, your pelvic health can directly relate to your symptoms - both positively and negatively.

Stress incontinence, which can be caused by weak pelvic floor muscles, is often characterized by urine leakage caused by sneezing, exercising, or laughing. Urge incontinence, which can be caused by tight pelvic floor muscles, is often identified by frequent, sudden urges to urinate. Maintaining a healthy regimen of pelvic floor exercises or stretches can greatly improve incontinence symptoms over time.

2. Decrease Risk of Pelvic Organ Prolapse

Pelvic organ prolapse (POP) can occur when your pelvic floor muscles and the tissues around the area are too weak to support your internal organs, such as the vagina, cervix, uterus, and rectum. Pelvic floor exercises help strengthen those tissues and muscles and keep pelvic organs in place.

3. Decrease Risk of Constipation

General exercise is good for improving constipation, and when you target your pelvic floor muscles with pelvic floor exercises, it can decrease your risk even more. 

4. Improve Sexual Health & Function

Pelvic floor exercises can increase blood flow in the pelvic floor and vagina which can improve overall sexual health and sexual function. 

At What Age Should I Start Doing Pelvic Floor Exercises?

This may surprise some, but we recommend starting pelvic floor muscle training as early as puberty.

For those with female anatomy, puberty is a time where inserting tampons or menstrual cups into the vagina can sometimes be difficult or uncomfortable. When this insertion is accompanied with pelvic pain, for women of any age, this can be an issue with the pelvic floor. Because of this, we recommend beginning pelvic floor muscle exercises at puberty.

It is important to talk to children about every part of their bodies, even their pelvic floors. Keeping open lines of communication with children can ensure that any issues involving pelvic floor dysfunction can be addressed and treated.

Pelvic Floor Exercises for Women

Did you know that you can blend pelvic floor exercises, or Kegels, into other exercises that you may already have in your exercise routine? It’s true!

There are many exercises that can incorporate the pelvic floor. Because the pelvic floor muscles are similar to your abdominal muscles, you can even exercise them every day. However, it is important to note that your pelvic floor muscles can get sore, and it may not feel like typical soreness that you are familiar with. Pelvic floor soreness can feel like heaviness or pressure in the lower abdomen and genitals. 

Once you establish a routine with your pelvic floor exercises, it is good practice to continue exercising the muscles to the point of fatiguing the muscle, without experiencing extreme discomfort. As far as reps are concerned, a good place to start is doing 3 sets of 10 reps. If you begin the second set of exercises, and you’re struggling to continue, it is more than okay to take a break! If you take a break between sets, try to remember to come back at a later time to continue where you left off. 

The optimal number of Kegel squeezes per day is 100 squeezes, but we recognize that this may not be feasible for many individuals. Any amount you can do each day is great for your pelvic floor, so don’t worry if you can’t reach 100 per day. If you’re experiencing symptoms of incontinence or other bladder control issues, improvement of symptoms can take up to 6 weeks after beginning consistent pelvic floor exercises. If symptoms worsen or do not improve in six weeks, we recommend that you see a pelvic floor physical therapist.


Yes, you can engage your pelvic floor muscles when you squat! To properly squat, begin by standing with your feet shoulder-width apart. Your toes should be pointed straight forward with your arms comfortably in front of you. Send your hips back while lowering your body to the ground. Pause when your thighs are parallel to the floor while keeping your chest up. Squeeze your pelvic floor muscles as you lift back up into your starting position. It is important to have proper form, ensuring the knees do not bend past your feet. You can also add a dumbbell or kettlebell to your squat to increase the intensity.

Hip Bridges

To complete a hip bridge, begin by laying on your back with your feet planted firmly on the floor with your knees bent. Scoot your feet as close to your bottom as possible while still maintaining a comfortable position. Lift your hips off the floor to form a 45 degree angle from the ground, forming a right triangle with your back, knees, and the floor. As you lift into a 45 degree angle, squeeze your glutes and pelvic floor muscles, then return to your starting position with your back flat on the floor. Repeat for as many reps as you would like.

Hip Roll on Exercise Ball

For this exercise, you will need an exercise ball or other flat surface to balance on. Sit on the ball with your feet planted firmly on the ground. Without moving your knees, roll your hips clockwise. Try your best not to move your shoulders or any other part of your body besides your hips while rotating. Engage your core and pelvic muscles while rotating. Do 10 clockwise rotations, then do 10 counterclockwise. 

Clam Shells

Clam shells can engage the deep muscles within the pelvic floor. To do a clam shell, begin by laying on your side. Prop your head up with your elbow on the floor and your head in your hand. Place your opposite hand comfortably on the ground in front of you. Next, place a resistance band a few inches above your knees on the lower thigh. (You can also do this without a resistance band for a less intense exercise.) With the resistance band around your lower thigh, open your top leg, imitating a clam opening up. When your leg is open, squeeze your pelvic floor muscles and then return your leg back to beginning posture. After the desired amount of reps, switch to the opposite side and proceed from the beginning.

Reverse Clam Shells

For a reverse clam shell, begin similarly to the regular clam shell by laying on one side with your arm supporting your head. This time, place your resistance band around your ankles. Move your top ankle and foot up and away from the other ankle, forming an opened clam shape with your feet. When your feet and ankles are open completely, squeeze your pelvic floor muscles. Place your feet back together, and proceed with the remaining reps. Switch to the opposite side and proceed with the same amount of reps, remembering to engage your pelvic floor muscles.

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There are many different exercises that engage the pelvic floor muscles, but the above exercises are a great place to start. Remember, even if you only can do a few pelvic floor exercises each day, that is something to be proud of!

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Aleece Fosnight

Aleece Fosnight, MSPAS, PA-C, CSC-S, CSE, NCMP, IF, HAES is a Medical Advisor and Writer for Aeroflow Urology and a board-certified physician assistant specializing in sexual medicine, women’s health, and urology. In 2019, she opened up her own private practice, the Fosnight Center for Sexual Health, and implemented the sexual health grand rounds curriculum at her local hospital and residency program.

Aleece is also the founder of the Fosnight Foundation, a non-profit organization dedicated to the education and training of professionals in the sexual health field and providing funding for access to healthcare services in her local community.


Information provided on the Aeroflow Urology blog is not intended as a substitute to medical advice or care from a healthcare professional. Aeroflow recommends consulting your healthcare provider if you are experiencing medical issues relating to incontinence.