The Best Pelvic Floor Exercises for Men

To ensure you're using the right muscles, start by standing in front of a mirror. You can also explore this activity lying down or sitting. If accessible to you, you can also get feedback from your hand by placing it near the area between your scrotum and anus, as shown in the image below. 

Begin by taking a few deep breaths in and out, bringing your awareness to the area in between your sitz bones (the bony parts of the butt that you sit on). On your next exhale, squeeze your superficial pelvic muscles as if you were going to stop the flow of urine or draw your penis inward (like a turtle pulling its head back into the shell). When you're ready to inhale, relax the muscles, letting the contraction go. 

What did you feel? 

On your next exhale, squeeze the muscles around your anus as if you wanted to hold back a fart (that feeling when you're in an elevator and you don't want to be passing gas? Yup, those are your deep pelvic floor muscles in action!) 

What did you notice?

When you squeeze your pelvic floor muscles, your penis draws up and in, your testicles lift upwards, and the anus closes. When you release your pelvic floor muscles, your penis and scrotum drop back down, and the pelvic muscles relax. 

Common mistakes when trying to identify your pelvic floor muscles:

• Squeezing only your butt cheeks. 
• Squeezing your thighs.
• Straining your abdominals.
• Holding your breath.
• Pushing down. 

If you do the above, you may target the incorrect muscles. You can refine your awareness by relaxing the other parts of your body that may be tensing or doing a lot of work (ahem, like your eyebrows).

This will allow you to better focus only on your pelvic floor muscles. You don't want to be an overachiever here: This isn't pass or fail. This activity is to help orient you with your pelvic floor, and it may take some time to establish this connection. 

Pelvic floor exercises are specific workouts that intentionally engage, strengthen, and tone the pelvic floor muscles involved in bladder and bowel control.

When they hear about pelvic floor exercises, most people automatically think of Kegel exercises. However, it's not just about Kegeling or squeezing your pelvic muscles as hard as you can! It's just as important to relax the muscles as it is to contract them. 

Pelvic floor muscle function also includes optimizing range of motion, enhancing body awareness, and adapting to varying tissue demands (i.e., heavy lifting, sitting, jumping, and coughing).

Exercising your pelvic floor muscles can improve bladder urgency and frequency and decrease your chance of urinary and fecal incontinence as you age, which can improve your overall satisfaction and quality of health.

This pelvic floor exercise is most effective for those with post-pee dribble and urinary incontinence. You can do this exercise right now from the comfort of your home.

To begin this exercise, contract the superficial muscles around the base of the penis. When contracting these muscles, try to only isolate the muscles around the penis without contracting the anus or rectum.

You can perform this exercise in two different ways - rapid-fire and long-holds. For both speeds, ensure you are performing quality squeezes and releases. 

Rapid-fire: Quickly squeeze and release, squeeze and release, squeeze and release.

Long-hold: While maintaining a natural and relaxed breathing pace, squeeze for 10-counts and release for 10-counts, then repeat this 10-count squeeze and release multiple times.

This exercise is best for those with a non-relaxing pelvic floor that feels tight. If you have difficulty with urinating, initiating a urine stream, emptying the bladder, having regular bowel movements (constipation), or pelvic pain, this exercise could be beneficial for your pelvic floor.

While breathing in, relax all the pelvic floor muscles as if the pelvic floor was a balloon growing in size. While breathing out, subtly and lightly engage all the pelvic floor muscles by gently squeezing and activating them. Inhale and relax the muscles. Rinse and repeat at a slow, soft, smooth breathing pace.

With this exercise, be aware of how you squeeze your pelvic floor muscles. Try to use minimal effort to achieve engagement. You don’t want to use a strong activation here. It can be beneficial to think of the difference in strength that occurs when you gently close your hand versus when you make a tight fist. For this exercise, you want to be gentle.

If you experience stress incontinence, or the involuntary loss of urine during activities such as coughing, laughing, jumping, or getting up from a chair, this pelvic floor muscle exercise can help to improve your bladder control.

While walking, engage the muscles around your penis for several steps. Explore this a few times during your walk. You'll want to use the same level of activation you felt and identified in the above exercise - a gentle squeeze and activation.

After you become familiar with the right amount of activation for the muscles around your penis, intentionally squeeze these muscles before and during activities that increase intra-abdominal pressure such as coughing, laughing, sneezing, heavy lifting, getting up from a chair, when walking up or down the stairs for a few steps, and stepping onto a curb. These squeezes can assist in gaining control of your urethra and urine leakage.