The Best Way to Urinate: 10 Expert Tips for Females

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Key Takeaways:

  • Urinating incorrectly can lead to urinary retention, urinary tract infections, leakage, and more.
  • Using the proper techniques, you can ensure successful voiding every time.


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There's been lots of buzz on social media lately about women's health and how to urinate correctly. Some say the right way to pee is by sitting differently, while others say it's not how you sit, but how you wipe that matters.

There are so many videos and articles out there, it's hard to know which way of urinating is correct.

To help, we've rounded up tips from some of the most informational places available and asked our Medical Advisor and Urologist, Aleece Fosnight, for advice so you can be sure you're setting yourself up for success the next time you use the bathroom.

What to Avoid When Voiding

As it turns out, urinating the wrong way can lead to a whole slew of complications, such as:

What to Avoid:

  • Holding your urine for too long.
  • Voiding when you didn't need to (the "Just in case" time frame).
  • Not drinking enough water.
  • Not managing constipation or not defecating when you need to.
  • Rushing to go to the restroom when you don't need to go.
  • Pushing to void your bladder.
  • Thinking that urinary incontinence (UI) is normal despite being common.

10 Tips to Urinate Properly

Let's get right down to it so there's no more confusion on how to urinate correctly! Use this guide next time you go to the bathroom.

1. Don't Hold It!

Waiting to urinate is something everyone does once in a while, whether it's because you're not near a bathroom or you're stuck in traffic. However, holding your urine can lead to some pretty significant side effects, including:

  • Damage to the urethral sphincter. This muscle keeps your urethra closed and stops your flow of urine from coming out. When you hold your pee, you may damage it.
  • Cramps. If you hold your pee for too long, your muscles may remain clenched even after you void, causing cramps.
  • Kidney stones. Holding in your pee can cause kidney stones to form, especially in those prone to them.
  • UTIs. Holding your urine in can give bacteria the perfect environment for multiplying, causing infection.
  • Pelvic floor muscle damage. Your pelvic floor muscles can become damaged from holding your urine. 
  • Urinary incontinence. Holding your pee can damage your pelvic muscles, leading to urinary incontinence (UI. 

2. Don't Hold in Your Fecal Matter, Either

When you don't make regular bowel movements, you can experience constipation, which can put pressure on your bladder, making you more prone to bladder function issues.

3. Always Sit Down

We've all hovered above gross public toilet seats, but it's not good for your urinary system. It's scientifically proven that your bladder holds in 1/3 of its urine when you hover. Your pelvic muscles also engage when you do this, causing urine to push past them.

It's also important to relax when you urinate, and sitting down is the first step to getting there. Missy Lavender recommends covering the toilet seat if you're worried about germs. Check out the video below to learn more about sitting down when urinating.

4. Position Your Body Correctly

As discussed above, sitting down is the first step to positioning your body. Then, lean forward with a neutral spine, ensuring you're not arching your back. Next, keep your feet flat on the floor.

In this video, The Vaginacologist recommends a couple of different ways of positioning your body to urinate, but we recommend not lifting your bottom. Watch the video below for more information on how to sit while peeing.

5. Don't Go Too Often

Remember the phrase, "Just try to go before we leave?" It turns out that's not great for your urinary system.

Going to the bathroom frequently can cause overactive bladder (OAB) symptoms because your bladder becomes used to peeing when it feels even a small amount of urine inside, even when it's not full. Try to only go when you need to. You should pee about 6-8 times in a 24-hour period.

6. Remember to Breathe Out

Relaxation is essential when urinating. Holding your breath can put pressure on your bladder muscles, causing strain. After sitting down, put your hands on your stomach and inhale deeply. Then—and most importantly—lean forward and breathe out as your urine flows. Check out this video from Physical Therapy for Moms

7. Don't Push

If you push while peeing, you can strain your bladder muscles and damage them, leading to UI. Pushing also places strain on your pelvis, forcing your bladder to contract. This could push urine through your partially-closed urethral sphincter, resulting in urge incontinence. Finally, forcing yourself to pee can also cause pelvic organ prolapse (POP) in some cases. 

8. Wipe Front to Back

If you wipe back to front, especially after a bowel movement, you're increasing your risk of developing a UTI. This can happen when fecal matter and bacteria spread from your anus to your urethra.

It's also better to dab instead of wipe to help decrease this risk. If wiping front to back is too uncomfortable for you, or if you cannot get all the fecal matter off your bottom, you could opt for a bidet to aid in cleaning.

9. Drink Lots of Water

Drinking plenty of water is a staple of good bladder health. When you don't drink enough water, your urine becomes more concentrated, leading to bladder irritation. How can you tell if you're drinking enough water? Your urine color will tell you!

Healthy urine: Color will range from light yellow to dark amber and have no scent.

Unhealthy urine: Color will be dark brown or cloudy and have a strong scent.

10. Do Pelvic Floor Exercises

You can do specific pelvic muscle exercises to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. For example, Kegel exercises are a great way to maintain a healthy pelvic floor. In addition, these exercises can aid in incontinence symptoms, decrease your risk of pelvic organ prolapse (POP), and improve your sexual function and overall sexual health.

Step-by-Step Guide

  1. Take your time.
  2. Sit all the way down and do not hover.
  3. Lean slightly forward at a 90-degree angle.
  4. Use a stool to place your feet on if needed (the 90-degree angle at your knees).
  5. Belly breathe and relax your pelvic floor muscles.
  6. Let your urine drain completely by allowing enough time from start to stop.
  7. Sit for 10 extra seconds to ensure that your bladder is completely empty.

Urinating improperly can lead to UTI, bladder irritation, increased urgency, kidney infection, and improper bladder training. It's essential to take your time and ensure you're urinating properly.

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Aleece Fosnight

Aleece Fosnight, MSPAS, PA-C, CSC-S, CSE, NCMP, IF, HAES is a Medical Advisor and Writer for Aeroflow Urology and a board-certified physician assistant specializing in sexual medicine, women’s health, and urology. In 2019, she opened up her own private practice, the Fosnight Center for Sexual Health, and implemented the sexual health grand rounds curriculum at her local hospital and residency program.

Aleece is also the founder of the Fosnight Foundation, a non-profit organization dedicated to the education and training of professionals in the sexual health field and providing funding for access to healthcare services in her local community.

About the Author

Marlee Septak is the Senior Content Specialist at Aeroflow Urology. She brings a deep understanding of incontinence and health conditions associated with it to her writing. She graduated from Columbia College Chicago and holds a Bachelor's degree in Journalism. Marlee has contributed to various magazines and blogs, including Borgen Magazine, Echo Magazine, Chicago Ideas Week, Assuaged, and Peaceful Dumpling. In her spare time, she enjoys traveling, trying new restaurants, and just sitting down with a good book.


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